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honestly the current language we have to concisely explain gender just kind of sucks. maybe it doesn’t if you feel like it’s adequate to describe you but all these labels are useless for me. “cis” is wrong. “trans” implicitly claims a type of oppression that i never experience and many people who use that label would take issue with me using it because i don’t need to and never intend to transition. “gnc” is also literally just wrong. “nonbinary” doesn’t work for me. the closest word that actually means anything to me on a personal level is “genderqueer,” a word forced into declining relevance by the “queer is a slur” crowd.
| May 8 2023 | 10 notes | permalink |
It's the weekend, so I can't verify this, but I'm like. 99% sure there's Zodiac Girlz books in my school library.
damienspinkshirtthat’s probably this:
note the s instead of the z. they have similar names but are unrelated!
| May 7 2023 | 6 notes | permalink |
“go to therapy” will be useful advice when there’s not a greater than even chance that the person providing the therapy is barely qualified to do so. i am getting so sick of trying new providers only for them to be underqualified or not bothering to keep up with best practices in treatment
| May 4 2023 | 10 notes | permalink |
To all my fellow Americans: how do you pronounce radiator
Rah-diator (correct)
Ray-diator (wrong)
not American
See ResultsPls reblog with your state
(via cannabisbutch)
| May 2 2023 | 17,545 notes | permalink |
Actively hate the discourse against 24/7 places like I get where you’re coming from but in my ideal world a lot of shit would be 24/7 just with more shifts and better pay because plenty of people prefer to work nights or have to be out at weird hours to get basic necessities for one reason or another and acting like necessary services keeping to almost a 9-5 operating hours and having multiple days closed ignores people sometimes do need things immediately and it’s not all some lazy selfish desire and isn’t inherently harmful to the employees
I spent 13 hours in the ER yesterday with a myasthenia gravis flare, and was famished when I finally got to go home at 2 AM. The 24 hour McDonald’s across the street from the hospital was an absolute godsend. Blessings and mercy and a pay raise for all the shift workers both in and outside the hospital.
As a person with delayed sleep phase disorder the idea of an 8-5 world is pure hell to me. Not only do I have to work those shitty hours, I have to do my personal business too?
Shift work doesn’t have to be hell. Let everything be 24/7 just let people who prefer to work nights be the ones to do it.
(via cannabisbutch)
| April 29 2023 | 30,423 notes | permalink |
i don’t dress to look good i dress to distract myself from looming societal collapse ‼️ slap more jingle bells on there
| April 25 2023 | 6 notes | permalink |
but are you a “understands that people have good reasons for leaving, distrusting, and even hating the church, and speaks up against hateful behavior in their own church” christian or are you “oh bless your heart the devil has led you astray and there’s no other reason that you’d be resentful of the church” christian
| April 24 2023 | 18 notes | permalink |